Marriage, Kids, and Care Credits for Doctors

Life changes.
So do your taxes.

This guide keeps it simple and focused.
Short lines. Clear steps. Practical moves you can use this year.

What changes when you marry

• Your filing status shifts the brackets.

• You may hit phaseouts sooner or later, depending on income mix.

• With two earners, withholding needs a reset.

• Student loans and repayment plans can change with joint AGI.

Quick read while you set levels: IRS Tax Tips.

Filing status: pick what pays

Married Filing Jointly (MFJ)

• Often best for high earners.

• Larger standard deduction.

• Access to more credits (when you qualify).

Married Filing Separately (MFS)

• Consider for unique cases: injury settlements, separate loan repayment, or certain medical deductions.

• Many credits vanish or shrink.

• Run both ways before you choose.

Ask your advisor to draft both returns once. Keep the better path on file.

Withholding tune-up

• Update each W-4 after marriage.

• If you also earn 1099 income, add estimates or increase withholding on the W-2 job.

• Hit safe-harbor targets so penalties don’t nibble away savings.

• New to 1099? Start here: 1099 contractor tax guide.

Kids change the math

• Child Tax Credit (CTC). Phaseouts hit high incomes fast. Still check.

• Child and Dependent Care Credit. Tied to work-related care. Use with a Dependent Care FSA when your plan offers it.

• Adoption Credit. Large, but subject to income limits.

Keep receipts. Match names and Social Security numbers exactly. Small errors stall refunds.

Dependent Care FSA vs credit

• DCFSA gives pre-tax payroll dollars for daycare, preschool, or day camps tied to work.

• The credit can win if your AGI is low enough.

• Many doctors do better with the FSA. Run both.

Health accounts for families

• HSA (family coverage). Triple benefit—deduction, tax-free growth, tax-free medical use.

• Save receipts for years and decide when to reimburse.

• Limited-purpose FSA can work with HSA for dental/vision.

Retirement moves for two

• Fill the 401(k)/403(b) match for both spouses.

• High earners: run backdoor Roth IRAs cleanly. Keep pre-tax IRA balances out of the way or roll them into a plan.

• One spouse has low or no income? Use a spousal IRA.

• Owners: consider profit sharing or a Cash Balance layer when profits support it. See the yearly list: Doctor tax-saving strategies (2025).

College and future costs

• 529 plans grow tax-free for qualified education.

• Grandparents can contribute too. Track who owns the account and how distributions affect aid.

• Keep a small cash buffer so you don’t raid retirement for tuition.

Practice owners with kids

• Hiring a teen for real work can shift income into a lower bracket.

• Pay a fair wage. Keep timesheets and job descriptions.

• Reimburse expenses with an accountable plan.

• Compare structures once a year: best tax structure for doctors (2025) and S-corporation benefits.

Travel, CME, and family trips

• Only the business portion is deductible.

• Keep day-by-day logs.

• Mixed trips have strict rules. Quick primer: tax deductions on business vacations (2025).

Multiple income streams after kids

• W-2, 1099, and K-1 together? Keep separate banking.

• Set a weekly reconcile habit so receipts don’t pile up.

• Use this lens for planning: strategies for physicians with multiple income streams.

• If your schedule allows, non-clinical work can be flexible: how physicians are increasing income with non-clinical side businesses.

State taxes and family life

• Model where you’ll live, learn, and retire.

• Brackets, credits, and childcare costs vary.

• A quick read as you plan moves: high-state income taxes in retirement.

Year-round cadence for busy families

• Weekly — 15 minutes
  Reconcile one account. Save daycare and medical receipts.

• Monthly — 1 hour
  Review pay stubs. Adjust withholdings if side income jumps.

• Quarterly
  Set estimates. Recheck Dependent Care FSA pace.

• Year-end
  Top off HSA and retirement.
  Decide on bunching gifts to a donor-advised fund.
  Harvest losses if it helps: market losses & tax-saving opportunities.

Where a tax advisor helps

• Runs MFJ vs MFS with your real numbers.

• Coordinates CTC, care credit, and DCFSA so you don’t double count.

• Tunes withholding and safe-harbor estimates for W-2 + 1099 families.

• Designs retirement plan space you can actually fund.

• Keeps you aligned with current IRS Tax Tips.

For a broader money lens, keep The Richest Doctor nearby. It’s a fast read and keeps habits front and center.

FAQ

MFJ or MFS—what should we choose?
Run both once with your advisor. Most high-earning couples file jointly, but special cases can tilt the math.

Can we claim both the Dependent Care FSA and the care credit?
You can’t double dip on the same dollars. Many physicians do better with the FSA, yet you should test both.

We’re over the Child Tax Credit limits—any breaks left?
Yes. HSA, retirement space, and charitable bunching still move the needle. Loss harvesting can help in taxable accounts.

Does backdoor Roth still work for us?
Yes, if you avoid the pro-rata rule. Keep pre-tax IRA balances away by rolling them into a plan.

Can I hire my teen in the practice?
Yes, for real work at a fair wage with clean records. It can shift income into a lower bracket and build savings for them.

Do family trips tied to a conference qualify?
Only the business portion. Keep logs and follow the mixed-travel rules.

Ready to talk strategy? Start here.

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